About the book
What if everything you’ve learned about self-esteem is missing the point?
A groundbreaking, practical, Torah-based path out of the scorecard — and into authentic self-esteem.
What if everything you’ve learned about building self-esteem is missing the point — and just plain wrong?
The Self-Esteem Trap offers a groundbreaking, practical, and Torah-based approach to overcoming self-doubt, building genuine confidence, and breaking free from the need to constantly prove your worth. It will transform the way you think about yourself and show you the true questions you’ve got to ask to achieve authentic self-esteem.
Written for Jewish readers seeking growth in avodas Hashem — and welcoming to anyone ready for a wiser, freer way to live.
The book’s central invitation is simple and radical: stop asking “How good am I?” and start asking “What is the next right thing to do?” When self-worth stops being a scorecard, your actions can still be evaluated — without putting your worth on trial.