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“The Self-Esteem Trap isn't another book about feeling good about yourself. It offers an entirely new paradigm for understanding self-esteem, and a practical path to achieving it. Read it and you'll stop asking, “Am I good enough?” for good.”

— David J. Lieberman, Ph.D., New York Times bestselling author

“I am confident that readers will find this work thought-provoking and most beneficial, helping them live healthier and more meaningful lives while growing in purpose and service.”

— Rabbi Yaakov Bender, Dean & renowned educator

“I couldn't put this book down. Its powerful message is presented with remarkable clarity, simplicity, and originality. A must-read for educators, parents, and anyone seeking a happier, more meaningful life.”

— Rabbi Shmuel Baron, Dean, Imrei Binah & Youth Educator

“Accept your inherent importance, stop judging who you are, and start mastering what you do. Read this book to trade the relentless noise of self-doubt for unshakable clarity, freedom, and purpose.”

— Rabbi Aharon Kaufman, Dean & author

“Rabbi Kestenbaum offers a helpful perspective on the self-esteem trap, revealing how our preoccupation with self-worth reflects the workings of the ego. That realization alone can be life-altering!”

— Dr. Shloimie Zimmerman, Psy.D., Author of From Boys to Men

“Rabbi Kestenbaum has developed a wonderful, practical approach to personal growth and self-worth, which can be of tremendous benefit to all readers.”

— Rabbi Menachem Zupnik, Community Leader & Educator
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